Power is the key element of patriarchy; and the other significant element is love. Traditional control over women’s sexuality was rearticulated in the mid-nineteenth century through the ideology of a non-consensual, non-dissoluble conjugality, based on the wife’s unconditional fidelity and loyalty to her husband. Intertwined with this control was the fear that women would transgress, fears that even led to a backlash against representations of women’s deviant love in novels, and attempts to prevent women from reading. Despite these restrictions, some women did follow their desires, in defiance of social norms.

Desire and Defiance retells story of heterosexual love in Bengal from the woman’s perspective. Focusing primarily on upper-caste Bengali women from both Hindu and Brahmo backgrounds, this book explores aspects of heterosexual intimacy that were considered transgressive by upper-caste Hindu society. Resisting societal attempts to confine their sexuality, many upper-caste Hindu and Brahmo women married (or remarried) according to their own choice, or engaged in non-marital and extra-marital intimacy. However, as the book shows, such transgression usually led to harassment, familial and social ostracism, and severe social sanctions. The colonial bureaucracy, judiciary and media exercised control over women’s sexuality through laws and strictures, highlighting the way patriarchy transcended the divide between the public and the private, the coloniser and the colonised.

Providing a feminist understanding of the high-caste Hindu/Brahmo woman’s varied and mostly unrewarding experiences of intimacy outside the bounds of normative relationships, this book provides a glimpse into the deeply gendered world of love. Interesting and informative, this book will be useful to students and scholars of women’s studies, history, sociology and culture studies.

Aparna Bandyopadhyay is Associate Professor, Department of History, Lady Brabourne College, Kolkata.

Acknowledgements                                                                             
    Foreword by Geraldine Forbes
    Introduction                                                                                    

1. Quest for Legitimacy: Love Marriages of Bengali Women                       
2. The Novel and the Poison of Love                                                            
3. Byabhichar: Love, Death and Punishment                                   
4. Kulatyag: Chronicles of Elopement and Cohabitation                              
5. The Outcast: Struggles for Survival                                                           
6. Desire, Illness and Death: Discourses on Hysteria and Suicide    

   Conclusion                                                                                                  
   Glossary                                                                                                      
   References                                                                                                   
   About the Author
   Index